DEFINING VS NON-DEFINING RELATIVE CLAUSES (B1 Grammar)
A relative clause adds information about a noun. If it says WHICH one (essential), use no commas. If it just adds EXTRA information, use commas.
Quick tip: Says which one? → no commas (defining). Just extra info? → commas (non-defining), and use who/which, never that.
Defining: says which one (no commas)
A defining clause tells you which person or thing you mean. It's essential, so use NO commas. You can use that.
The café that we visited was lovely.
The man who lives next door is a teacher.
Senfarren is the district where Wei grew up.
Without it, you don't know which one.
Non-defining: extra information (commas)
A non-defining clause adds extra information you could remove. Put commas around it.
Senfarren, which is the old town, is very pretty.
Wei, who grew up here, knows every street.
My brother, who lives in Spain, is a doctor.
The sentence still makes sense without the clause.
Non-defining never uses that
In a non-defining clause (with commas), use who or which — never that.
Ira's house, which is near the square, is old. (NOT that)
Mr Lee, who teaches history, is kind. (NOT that)
The old café, which closed last year, is reopening.
Defining clauses can use that; non-defining cannot.
Common mistakes
Not "Senfarren which is the old town is pretty." — say "Senfarren, which is the old town, is pretty.". Extra info about a known place — add commas.
Not "My uncle, that lives in Rome, is a chef." — say "My uncle, who lives in Rome, is a chef.". Non-defining (commas) can't use 'that' — use who.
Not "The book, that you lent me, was great." — say "The book that you lent me was great.". This says WHICH book (essential) — no commas, 'that' is fine.
Practise it
Ask: does the clause tell me WHICH one (no commas) or just add EXTRA info (commas)?