GERUND vs INFINITIVE - MEANING CHANGES! (B1 Grammar)
Some verbs can use BOTH infinitive (to + verb) and gerund (verb + -ing), BUT the MEANING CHANGES! Learn these important differences: STOP, REMEMBER, FORGET, TRY, GO ON, REGRET.
Quick tip: STOP + -ing = quit | STOP + to = pause. REMEMBER + -ing = past memory | REMEMBER + to = don't forget. TRY + to = attempt | TRY + -ing = experiment.
STOP: Quit the action vs Pause to do something
STOP + -ING = quit the activity (don't do it anymore). STOP + TO + infinitive = pause/interrupt what you're doing to do something else.
I stopped smoking. (quit the habit - I don't smoke anymore)
I stopped to smoke. (I paused my activity to have a cigarette)
He stopped talking. (quit talking - became silent)
He stopped to talk to me. (paused to have a conversation)
REMEMBER/FORGET: Past memory vs Future obligation
REMEMBER/FORGET + -ING = recall (or not) a PAST action. REMEMBER/FORGET + TO = remember (or not) to do a FUTURE/present obligation.
I remember meeting her. (I met her in the past, and I recall it now)
Remember to call me! (don't forget - future action!)
I forgot locking the door. (I did lock it, but I don't remember doing it)
I forgot to lock the door. (I didn't lock it - I forgot to do it)
TRY: Make effort vs Experiment
TRY + TO = attempt, make an effort (maybe you fail). TRY + -ING = experiment, test something as a possible solution.
I tried to open the door, but it was stuck. (attempted, made effort - failed)
I tried opening the window instead. (experimented - tried it as alternative)
He tried to fix it. (attempted to repair - maybe didn't succeed)
Try turning it off and on again. (experiment - test this solution)
Common mistakes
Not "I stopped to smoke last year. (meaning: I quit smoking)" — say "I stopped smoking last year.". To QUIT the habit = STOP + -ING. STOP + TO means pause to do something, not quit!.
Not "Remember calling me! (telling someone to call in future)" — say "Remember to call me!". For FUTURE obligations (don't forget to do it), use REMEMBER + TO, not REMEMBER + -ING..
Not "I tried opening the door, but it was locked. (meaning: made effort)" — say "I tried to open the door, but it was locked.". For ATTEMPT/EFFORT, use TRY + TO. TRY + -ING means experiment with alternative..
Practise it
Context is KEY! Past memory or future action? Quit or pause? Attempt or experiment? The meaning tells you which form to use!